Websites and Videos


Association of Family and Conciliation Courts – This international professional organization publishes helpful pamphlets and indexes other resources for parents experiencing divorce or separation.

Divorce Info – Created by Florida divorce attorney and mediator, Lee Bordon, this site offers knowledgeable and evenhanded articles of interest, including “How Can I Get the Kids Through This?”, “What are the Mistakes People Make Most Often in Divorce?”, and “What do I do now that I’ve Screwed Up?”

Divorce Source – This site has book lists, helpful articles, and referrals to various professionals indexed by city and state.

Divorce Support – Resources and services including, help in finding a divorce professional, information on child support, and a bookstore.

Up to Parents – A multimedia site with resources specifically for parents.


Split – a deeply personal film that explores the effects of divorce on children. The film features twelve children aged 6-12, who explore the often frightening and always life-altering separation of their parents. A parent guide is available in addition to the DVD.

Multnomah County Mediation Orientation – Shows how mediation works, with judges and other professionals explaining the benefits to families.

Online Tools

Our Family Wizard – an excellent online tool for parents, not just for maintaining a common calendar, but for sharing other information (medical records, expenses, etc).  It even has a confidential messaging system where communication can be pre-screened for its emotional impact before you send it.  Also available as an app.