Linda Scher
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Special Issues for Parents

There are special issues for parents who are separating and their children. Because of some of these concerns, the State of Oregon requires parents to file a general or a detailed Parenting Plan when they are filing for divorce or for a custody order, and to attend a Parent Education class. Mediation is especially suited to address the issues and concerns around children and future parenting that arise when parents separate or divorce or have not lived together at all.

If you are interested in books, and other resources for parents and children, go to the Resource List. Dr. Herman Frankel has written a sample Parent Pledge that you might find helpful in setting rules for yourselves during this difficult time. You can view more of his materials at Divorcework.com.

PARENTING PLANS

A parenting plan addresses the schedule for a child and how the parents will make decisions about the child in the future. Mediation can help you to form a detailed parenting plan that is customized to the needs of the child and the parents.

The Oregon Judicial Department has also created three excellent publications that can help you to create your parenting plan, the Basic Parenting Plan Guide, Basic Parenting Plan Packet, and Safety Focused Parenting Plan. All can be found at the Parenting Plan Page of the Oregon Judicial Department website.

PARENT EDUCATION

For information on the Parent Education classes in Multnomah, Washington or Clackamas counties, see below. For information on classes in other counties in Oregon, go to the Oregon Judicial Department website

Parent and Child Divorce Education Programs by County

Clackamas
Program Name: Parents Helping Children Cope With Family Change
Location: Family Court Services
2051 Kaen Road, Room 369
Oregon City, OR 97045
Online Registration: http://www.co.clackamas.or.us/fcs/parents.htm
Coordinator: Lauren MacNeill, (503) 655-8415
Cost: $60 (reduced to $45 if registered before filing papers or within 45 days of filing)
Offered On: Wednesday evenings and Saturday mornings
Time: 3.5 hours
Multnomah
Program Name: Raising Healthy Children from Two Households
Location: Multnomah County Courthouse (Tu/Sat)
1021 SW 4th Ave.
Portland, OR 97204
Juvenile Justice Complex (Th)
1401 NE 68th Avenue, Room 1201
Portland, OR 97213
Online Registration: http://www.co.multnomah.or.us/dcj/fcourtregisteronline.shtml
Coordinator: Chris Christensen, (503) 988-3037
Cost: $70 (reduced to $55 if registered before filing papers or within 60 days of filing)
Offered On: Tuesday and Thursday evenings and Saturday mornings
Time: 3.5 hours
Washington
Program Name: Kid’s Turn
Location: Varies
Online Registration: None
Coordinator: (503) 846-0665
Cost: $145
Offered On: Varies
Time: Four 1 ½ hour sessions, once a week for 4 weeks
Curriculum: Parents and children (age 5-16) attend separate workshops at the same time
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